Love & Happiness

Being Uniquely You…

It amazes me that I have had haters since I was the ripe age of nine. I can recall being told I was not liked because I was stuck up and thought I was cute. It amuses me now, but at the age of nine it hurt. This was the case for a couple of reasons;… Read More Being Uniquely You…

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That Forbidden Fruit

It had been my desire to entertain the concept of shopping for body types in the pursuit of body consciousness and self-love as the subject of this post. As I was pondering over the subject, I stumbled upon an interesting article that influenced me to change my mind – slightly. After reading the aforementioned article, I began… Read More That Forbidden Fruit

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Are You In Love?

What comes to mind when you hear the word, love? I immediately think of family and a significant other. To be completely honest, I didn’t immediately think of myself. I think that is the thought pattern for most non-narcissistic people. As women, we tend to make ourselves last on our list of priorities. “After I… Read More Are You In Love?

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Confidence: The Quintessential Accessory

When I think of confidence, a particular person comes to my mind whom I think exemplifies confidence in spite of the negative words that have been stated about her. The person I am referring to is Gabourey Sidibe. …we’re back in fifth grade, and I just had been rejected by 28 kids in a row.… Read More Confidence: The Quintessential Accessory

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The Beauty of Imperfection

Perfect – having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. I have blemishes on my right cheek, and sometimes my knees crack when I walk. I have the tendency to repeat myself when I am talking, and I can be extremely junky. I am a habitual… Read More The Beauty of Imperfection

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The Butterfly Effect

The butterfly effect is a theory that describes how small changes to a seemingly unrelated thing can affect large systems, meaning that an apparently minute influence on one part of a system can have a huge effect on another part. I think words can have a “butterfly effect” on people. Words are often seen as small and insignificant, but… Read More The Butterfly Effect

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Good Lovin’

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, love never fails. I Corinthians 13:7 If you have been following my blog, which I hope you have, you are very much aware of my push for self-love.  I believe it is imperative that we love ourselves unconditionally.  But, what does that really mean?… Read More Good Lovin’

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Is Plus-Size a Derogatory Term?

Honestly speaking, I’m not sure how I feel about the term Plus-Size.  What does the term Plus-Size mean anyway? And how is it even suitable? Why do we need to be labeled?  Why does there need to be a separation between clothing below a size 16 and above a size 16?  And please tell me why… Read More Is Plus-Size a Derogatory Term?

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Who is Beautiful?

According to Merriam-Webster, beauty is the quality of being physically attractive. The qualities in a person or a thing that give pleasure to the senses or the mind. We often have different opinions from the people we know concerning various topics. So, why should beauty be any different? A few weeks ago I had an… Read More Who is Beautiful?