It’s no secret that I have large breasts. Just a simple glance at me reveals this truth. But in spite of this obvious fact, I’ve questioned whether or not I should wear white t-shirts. It seems like some white […]

There seems to be a stigma associated with seeking therapy for mental health issues. In the latest episode of the podcast, Psychotherapist Tanea Couther, LCPC shares her expertise on the benefits of therapy. […]

During my daily analytic check of my blog, I learned a few people viewed a post I wrote about Valentine’s day in 2017, Valentine’s Day…Bah humbug. I reread the post and—in spite of the punctuation errors—I am […]

The words that comprise the title of this post were spoken to me by one of my new-ish co-workers. I think it was my second day in the office when she said, “I think I’m going to like the way you dress.”

It is […]

In the latest episode of the DOSBB Podcast, Dr. Lisa Witzig joins me in a discussion about combating racism.

Systemic inequality exists and racism is alive and kicking. How can we fix it? Can it be fixed? […]

In this week’s episode, Laurie Peterson and James Berry join B.B. in a candid conversation about experiencing infant and pregnancy loss.

Laurie and James share their stories and words of encouragement for […]

An article was sent to me today that left me a bit confused. In most cases, I don’t like using the word confused. Mainly because I know who the author of confusion is—but that is a topic for another day. H […]

Season two of the DOSBB Podcast is underway! This week, B.B. had the honor of sitting down with author and entrepreneur Shontae Smith in a discussion about recognizing we are enough.

Tune in and embrace your […]

Today is the second day of the new year and I feel the same as I did on the last day of 2020. Don’t misunderstand me, I didn’t expect things to be different just because the year changed. However, I noticed […]

“We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” – May Sarton

A recent conversation with one of my male friends made me question what transpired within me that […]

In the latest episode of the DOSBB Podcast, B.B. revisits a video that degrades overweight black women and shares some simple thoughts surrounding her push for self-acceptance.

Until the next time be you—but m […]

Season two of The Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty Podcast has begun! In this week’s episode, Author Nicole L. Beverly joins us to talk about her book and the pursuit of discovering strength.

Ms. Beverly’s book, […]

Due to the upcoming holidays, my fashion senses have been enticed by the influx of emails highlighting sales and gift-giving ideas. And I must confess I have been tempted to purchase several things for myself. So […]

Earlier today, I watched a video by Aba and Preach on YouTube that touches on a possible challenge within a relationship—weight gain. While I viewed it, a lot of questions popped into my mind as it relates to b […]

This week’s podcast episode addresses what success looks like.

This topic was inspired by a video I watched recently. The creator of the video degrades overweight black women. She also states we cannot “level […]

This week’s podcast episode was inspired by a post from social media.

Have we considered the possibility that our attitude may be potentially sabotaging our relationships? Check it out.

Until the next […]

Dearest Towanda,

I owe you a long-overdue apology. I gave unwarranted apologies to others to mend relationships and neglected my most valuable human connection—the one with you.

I apologized for being m […]

In this week’s podcast episode, I share my opinion of the trending song and video WAP by Cardi B. and Megan Thee Stallion.

My thoughts may surprise you. Check it out.

Until the next time be you—but more i […]

This week’s DOSBB Podcast episode addresses a few factors that influence the existence of the “Strong Black Woman” label. It isn’t onesided—black men aren’t solely responsible for its use. There is something a […]

Back in May, I was scrolling through Etsy and I spotted a wool circle skirt that captured my attention. At some point—and I’m not exactly sure how—I ended up on Pinterest where I spotted a gray circle skirt tha […]