About two years ago, I had the honor of meeting a warm and engaging woman by the name of Rozonna Hightower. From the moment I saw her, I knew she had a creative vibe. That part of her spoke through her beautiful, […]

For as long as I can remember, my mother has been my biggest cheerleader. She always encourages me to do my best and reminds me that I can do whatever I aspire to do. So when she tells me I write well, I am […]

There are quite a few things this Stylish Buxom Beauty considers to be essential pieces to every wardrobe. I’ve shared my thoughts on having a good foundation and the importance of a good-fitting bra. However, […]

It’s no secret that I have large breasts. Just a simple glance at me reveals this truth. But in spite of this obvious fact, I’ve questioned whether or not I should wear white t-shirts. It seems like some white […]

There seems to be a stigma associated with seeking therapy for mental health issues. In the latest episode of the podcast, Psychotherapist Tanea Couther, LCPC shares her expertise on the benefits of therapy. […]

During my daily analytic check of my blog, I learned a few people viewed a post I wrote about Valentine’s day in 2017, Valentine’s Day…Bah humbug. I reread the post and—in spite of the punctuation errors—I am […]

The words that comprise the title of this post were spoken to me by one of my new-ish co-workers. I think it was my second day in the office when she said, “I think I’m going to like the way you dress.”

It is […]

In the latest episode of the DOSBB Podcast, Dr. Lisa Witzig joins me in a discussion about combating racism.

Systemic inequality exists and racism is alive and kicking. How can we fix it? Can it be fixed? […]

In this week’s episode, Laurie Peterson and James Berry join B.B. in a candid conversation about experiencing infant and pregnancy loss.

Laurie and James share their stories and words of encouragement for […]

An article was sent to me today that left me a bit confused. In most cases, I don’t like using the word confused. Mainly because I know who the author of confusion is—but that is a topic for another day. H […]

Season two of the DOSBB Podcast is underway! This week, B.B. had the honor of sitting down with author and entrepreneur Shontae Smith in a discussion about recognizing we are enough.

Tune in and embrace your […]

Today is the second day of the new year and I feel the same as I did on the last day of 2020. Don’t misunderstand me, I didn’t expect things to be different just because the year changed. However, I noticed […]

“We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” – May Sarton

A recent conversation with one of my male friends made me question what transpired within me that […]

In the latest episode of the DOSBB Podcast, B.B. revisits a video that degrades overweight black women and shares some simple thoughts surrounding her push for self-acceptance.

Until the next time be you—but m […]

Season two of The Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty Podcast has begun! In this week’s episode, Author Nicole L. Beverly joins us to talk about her book and the pursuit of discovering strength.

Ms. Beverly’s book, […]

Due to the upcoming holidays, my fashion senses have been enticed by the influx of emails highlighting sales and gift-giving ideas. And I must confess I have been tempted to purchase several things for myself. So […]

Earlier today, I watched a video by Aba and Preach on YouTube that touches on a possible challenge within a relationship—weight gain. While I viewed it, a lot of questions popped into my mind as it relates to b […]

This week’s podcast episode addresses what success looks like.

This topic was inspired by a video I watched recently. The creator of the video degrades overweight black women. She also states we cannot “level […]

This week’s podcast episode was inspired by a post from social media.

Have we considered the possibility that our attitude may be potentially sabotaging our relationships? Check it out.

Until the next […]

Dearest Towanda,

I owe you a long-overdue apology. I gave unwarranted apologies to others to mend relationships and neglected my most valuable human connection—the one with you.

I apologized for being m […]