Is it possible to love ourselves without liking ourselves first? I believe it is possible to love someone and not like them. Meaning, we can dislike a behavior or characteristic of a person and still love them. When others display behaviors we are not fond of, we can choose to avoid them – but, we… Read More First Comes Like
Sizeism is defined as discrimination against someone on the basis of their physical size, especially against people considered to be overweight. Several months ago I read a post entitled, Sizism – One of the Last “Safe” Predjudices. When I read the post I considered those of us who are labeled as “plus-sized” to be discriminated against by some individuals of… Read More Sizeism and the Plus-Size World
sexy – sexually attractive or exciting. synonyms: sexually attractive, seductive, desirable, alluring, toothsome, sensual, sultry, slinky, provocative, tempting, tantalizing; nubile, voluptuous, luscious, lush, hot, beddable, foxy, cute A few days ago I read a post on my newsfeed that I did not agree with – like that is a newsflash – but, I digress. The… Read More You Can Call Me Sexy
“…the right clothes, the right shoes, the right make-up – it hides the flaws we think we have, they make us beautiful to ourselves…that’s what makes us beautiful to others” – Martha Rodgers, Castle Having insecurities is an intrinsic part of being human, but I think women are more susceptible to being overtaken by them.… Read More Insecurities
A few years ago I attended a training course that discussed animals that matched leadership styles – I learned that I am a peacock. This was not surprising to me at all – considering peacocks are identified as showy and like to be the center of attention. If you have been following me, you know I have… Read More Flaunt Those Peacock Feathers
Several months ago I posted my thoughts concerning the importance of taking pride in our appearance, and I feel the need to revisit it. I recognize there are some people who think clothing and one’s appearance is trivial, and there are far more important things in life to spend time thinking about than this. I am inclined… Read More What Did You Say?
Several years ago, someone said I looked like Esther Rolle. At the time the statement was made, I took offense to it. I was offended because back then, I didn’t consider her to be an attractive woman. During my early years of life, I had a very distorted view of what true beauty is. But, as I have… Read More Finding Beauty
A paradox is a statement or proposition that, despite sound (or apparently sound) reasoning from acceptable premises, leads to a conclusion that seems senseless, logically unacceptable, or self-contradictory. It is quite unfortunate that there are some people in this world who don’t believe full-figured women can be considered attractive and dateable. However, as I have stated… Read More The Full-Figured Beauty Paradox
The verb champion means to fight or speak publicly in support of (a person, belief, cause, etc.). I’ve often wondered why there is so much comparing and competing among women. What is the reason behind the “competition”? Is it just the combination of jealousy and low of self-esteem – or is there more to it? Does the action of comparing stem from our… Read More Be A Champion
As I sit here – in my black Michael Kors jumpsuit, I am pondering over my previous remarks and views concerning plus-size fashion acceptance, and I wonder if my original perspective is flawed. Acceptance is the action or process of being received as adequate or suitable, typically to be admitted into a group. Based on… Read More A Fashion Epiphany
