— The Blog —

Men’s Fashion: What Does B.B. Like?

About two months ago I was asked if I write fashion posts geared toward men. Well, the fact of the matter is, I started working on one some time ago, and since someone inquired about such topics, I felt inspired to finish it and outline others. With this in mind, I decided to make this… Read More Men’s Fashion: What Does B.B. Like?

— The Blog —

‘Gurl,’ “Relax, Relate, Release,” and Sing A New Song: A Moment of Self-Awareness

The quest for me to write more is underway. I was proud of myself for having multiple posts in the “hopper” ready for the “publish” button until I proofread one of them. Considering I don’t have an editor—yet—it is imperative that I review my work before publication to ensure I haven’t misspelled a word or… Read More ‘Gurl,’ “Relax, Relate, Release,” and Sing A New Song: A Moment of Self-Awareness

— The Blog —

Shut Up, Towanda—Your Name is Victory: Muzzling the Self-Destructive Internal “Caren”

In retrospect—and as “rude” as it may sound—I should have told some people I’ve encountered to shut up. Specifically, the ones who implied knowing me and why I made particular decisions or statements. And while I’m being frank, I should have expressed some expletives directed toward them and “the horse they rode in on.” I… Read More Shut Up, Towanda—Your Name is Victory: Muzzling the Self-Destructive Internal “Caren”

— The Blog —

My Quest To Love and Be Loved Begins With Me

Over the past several months, I’ve been thinking about what it means to love. Initially my interest in the topic was piqued when I noticed a social media post comparing love to loyalty, which inspired me to record a podcast episode about it. My exploration of the two words reinforced my preference to choose love,… Read More My Quest To Love and Be Loved Begins With Me

— The Blog —

It’s 50 Days ’til 50—Get Busy Living!

Needless to say, it has been some time since I published a blog post. However, I make a conscious effort to check the site to monitor engagement from readers, and today was no different. I learned someone read the post, “If Not Now…When,” dated December 17, 2017. I wrote about redeeming the time and doing… Read More It’s 50 Days ’til 50—Get Busy Living!

— The Blog —

I’m a Fraud, I Haven’t Practiced What I Preached, But Now I’ve Repented: Confessions of a So-Called Self-Love Advocate

When I decided to proclaim being a self-love promoter, I didn’t know what it truly meant. I started this blog with the mindset of focusing on the importance of showing ourselves love when others don’t accept us because of how we look or how much we weigh. I still believe we should love ourselves despite… Read More I’m a Fraud, I Haven’t Practiced What I Preached, But Now I’ve Repented: Confessions of a So-Called Self-Love Advocate

— Keys in life —

WWBBW: Three Things I Am No Longer Wearing and Neither Should You

The fact that I like clothes isn’t a secret. I find enjoyment in locating items that fit my personality and style in my size. I am a firm believer in buying and wearing clothes that I like and feel complement my body type. I also like to encourage others to do the same. If it… Read More WWBBW: Three Things I Am No Longer Wearing and Neither Should You

— Love & Happiness —

I’m Still Learning to Love Myself: Confessions of a Self-Love Advocate

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3:13-14 KJV Have you ever had to rebuke… Read More I’m Still Learning to Love Myself: Confessions of a Self-Love Advocate

— Fashionista, WWBBW —

WWBBW: What I Wore This Week

After some thought and consideration of my time, I decided to share everything I wore this week in one post on the blog instead of trying to share pictures daily. I also figured it would be great to capture my thoughts on the pieces I wore along with where I purchased them. So, here’s what… Read More WWBBW: What I Wore This Week

— Liberty & the Pursuit of Happiness —

Hey Everybody, Comparing is Bad for the Soul!

The thought to write about comparing came to my mind about a week or so ago. It stemmed from something I noticed within me, but the urge to whip out my laptop and write came after an unexpected conversation I had with a co-worker. Now I believe the discussion confirmed my need to share my… Read More Hey Everybody, Comparing is Bad for the Soul!